When it comes to exploring pleasure, many people focus on shape, texture, and vibration. But there’s another dimension that can take your play to the next level- temperature play. Using heat or cold with your dildos and other sex toys can awaken new sensations, intensify arousal, and add a touch of excitement to your routine.
In this guide, we’ll explain how to safely experiment with temperature play, which materials work best, and tips to make the most of this exciting technique…
Why try temperature play with dildos?
Our skin is highly sensitive to changes in temperature, particularly in intimate areas where nerve endings are concentrated. Shifts between warm and cool can heighten sensitivity, increase blood flow, and create a delicious contrast that amplifies every touch.
Adding heat or cold to your dildos can:
- Make sensations more intense.
- Provide a fresh way to explore familiar toys.
- Build anticipation and excitement during foreplay.
The best dildo materials for temperature play
Not all sex toys are suitable for temperature play. Some materials hold heat and cold better than others, making them safer and more effective.
- Glass dildos: Ideal for both warming and cooling, glass retains temperature beautifully and is completely body-safe.
- Metal dildos: Stainless steel toys are fantastic conductors of heat and cold, creating powerful sensations with little effort.
- Silicone dildos: While they don’t hold temperature as long as glass or metal, you can gently warm or cool silicone toys for subtle effects.
Avoid porous materials (such as jelly or rubber), as they may not react well to extreme temperatures and are harder to clean.
How to safely heat or cool your dildos
For cooling:
- Place your dildo in the fridge for around 10-15 minutes before use.
- Or, immerse it in a bowl of cold water.
- Never place toys in the freezer- extreme cold can damage the material and cause discomfort or even injury.
For heating:
- Run your dildo under warm tap water or submerge it in a bowl of warm water.
- Always test the temperature on your wrist before use to ensure it’s comfortably warm, not hot.
- Never use a microwave, oven, or boiling water to heat your toys, as this can warp or damage them.
Tips for enjoying temperature play with dildos
- Start slow: Introduce gentle warmth or coolness before experimenting with more dramatic contrasts.
- Mix sensations: Alternate between warm and cool toys, or combine temperature play with vibration for an even greater impact.
- Communicate: If playing with a partner, check in regularly to ensure the temperature feels good.
- Prioritise safety: Always clean your toys thoroughly before and after use, especially when introducing water into the process.
Final thoughts…
Temperature play is a simple yet exciting way to explore new sensations with your dildos and other sex toys. By using safe methods and the right materials, you can heat things up- or cool them down- for a unique experience.
Ready to try it yourself? Explore our collection of body-safe glass, metal, and silicone sex toys, and discover just how much fun temperature play can be.
