Sex Position of the Month: The Seated Scissors

Welcome to our new monthly feature, Sex Position of the Month: your excuse to try something new, shake up your routine, and discover new ways to connect with your partner and your pleasure. This month, we’re spotlighting a lesser-known but deeply rewarding position: The Seated Scissors.

What is the Seated Scissors?

Imagine a fusion of intimacy, control, and full-frontal closeness. The Seated Scissors is a variation of missionary with a sensual twist.

In this position, the receiving partner lies on their back while the penetrating partner kneels between their legs. One leg of the receiving partner crosses over the thigh or hip of the partner on top, creating a “scissor-like” configuration. The other leg can rest on the ground or wrap around their partner’s waist. It’s a close, controlled position with a surprising amount of depth and connection.

How to do it

1. Start by lying on a soft surface, like a bed, sofa, or yoga mat.
2. The giving partner kneels between the receiving partner’s legs.
3. The receiver lifts one leg over the partner’s thigh or side.
4. The other leg stays flat or curls around the partner for added closeness.
5. Adjust the angle and movement to what feels best for both of you.

The crossing leg allows for deep penetration and enhanced G-spot or P-spot stimulation, depending on anatomy, while also allowing eye contact and physical intimacy.

Why you’ll love it

• Deeper, angled penetration: The leg placement allows for more controlled thrusts and the ability to hit the right angles- great for targeted pleasure.
• Closeness: You’re face to face, which makes it perfect for eye contact, kissing, and more sensual play.
• Comfort: It’s less intense on the hips and knees than many acrobatic positions, making it great for longer sessions.
• Easy to modify: Add pillows under the hips or try this on a sturdy chair for variety.

Sex toy tip: enhance the pleasure

Add a vibrating cock ring or a clitoral vibrator into the mix to supercharge sensations for the receiver. The vibrator can be held in place during penetration to combine deep internal pleasure with consistent clitoral stimulation, potentially leading to stronger, blended orgasms.

Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or just having fun, the Seated Scissors is a great way to slow down and connect.