When it comes to pleasure, one size definitely does not fit all. Whether you’re brand new to the world of dildos or simply looking to expand your toy box, finding the perfect dildo is all about personal preference: size, shape, material, and style all play a role.
In this ultimate guide, we’ll help you navigate your options so you can choose a toy that feels just right for you…
Why use a dildo?
Dildos are versatile, body-safe tools for solo or partnered play, perfect for penetration, G-spot or P-spot stimulation, or even harness play. They come in all shapes and sizes, meaning there’s a perfect match for everyone, no matter your anatomy, experience level, or play style.
Size matters (but not in the way you think)
Let’s talk about size: because while it’s one of the first things people think about, bigger isn’t always better.
- Length: Think about how deep you like penetration. For G-spot or prostate stimulation, 4-6 inches may be all you need. For deeper thrusting or if you’re more experienced, you might want something longer.
- Girth: This affects how “full” the dildo feels. Beginners might prefer slimmer options (around 1-1.25 inches in diameter), while seasoned users might enjoy a thicker toy.
- Electric Love top tip: Start smaller and work your way up. It’s easier to explore with comfort and confidence when you’re not overwhelmed.
Shapes and curves: what feels good to you?
Dildos come in many shapes, from realistic replicas to abstract works of art. The shape you choose can change everything about your experience.
- Realistic dildos: Moulded to look and feel like a penis, often with veins, a defined head, and even testicles.
- Curved dildos: Ideal for G-spot or P-spot stimulation, with a slight or pronounced curve that targets sensitive internal areas.
- Double-ended dildos: Great for partner play or deeper solo exploration.
- Textured dildos: Ridges, bumps, or spirals add extra sensation during thrusting.
What’s it made of?
Choosing a body-safe material is essential for both pleasure and peace of mind.
- Silicone
The gold standard: non-porous, hypoallergenic, and easy to clean. Soft yet firm for a realistic feel.
- Glass
Elegant, smooth, and temperature-responsive. Great for temperature play and easy insertion.
- Metal
Heavy, sleek, and luxurious: perfect for pressure and temperature play.
- Jelly/Rubber
Often cheaper, but porous and not ideal for long-term use without a condom.
Style it your way
There’s a dildo for every kind of fantasy or vibe:
- Harness-compatible dildos: Flat-base or suction-cup styles perfect for strap-on play.
- Vibrating dildos: Combine penetration with internal vibration for a next-level experience.
- Fantasy dildos: From tentacles to dragons (yes, really!) these imaginative designs cater to niche fantasies.
- Realistic Dildos: Designed to look and feel like the real thing, often with lifelike veins, a pronounced head, and testicles. Perfect for those who want a more authentic penetrative experience, whether solo or with a partner.
- Colourful/glow-in-the-dark options: For playful, aesthetic fun.
Care, cleaning and comfort
Always clean your dildo before and after use using warm water and mild, unscented soap or a toy cleaner. For porous toys, use a condom to reduce bacteria buildup. Store your toy in a cool, dry place, ideally in a cloth bag to avoid lint or dust.
Don’t forget lube: it enhances comfort and pleasure. Water-based lube is compatible with all materials, while silicone-based lube should be used carefully (not with silicone toys).
Final thoughts…
Finding your perfect dildo is all about tuning into your body, your preferences, and what feels good. There’s no “right” choice, just the one that makes you feel empowered, turned on, and totally satisfied.
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One Response
Super helpful tbh. There’s way more to think about than I realised. Glad it breaks it down without making it awkward.