Your guide to erogenous zones (including some you may not have thought of!)

Your body is full of pleasure potential. While we all know about the usual hotspots (hello, nipples and genitals), there are plenty of other erogenous zones just waiting to be explored. Whether you’re flying solo or getting steamy with a partner, tuning into these zones can totally level up your pleasure game.

Ready for the tour? Let’s go…

1. The neck

Soft kisses, gentle nibbles, a teasing trail of fingers… the neck is incredibly sensitive thanks to all those nerve endings just beneath the skin. It’s a fab spot to stimulate for foreplay, or even just during a cuddle.

Try this: Use a feather tickler or soft vibrator on a low setting to lightly brush across the neck. 

2. Nipples

A classic for a reason. Nipples and the surrounding areola are super responsive, and not just for people with boobs! Stimulating this area can release oxytocin (aka the “love hormone”) and get things going fast.

Try this: Nipple clamps or suction toys can intensify sensation. Or use a bullet vibrator if you’re in the mood for more buzz.

3. Inner thighs

So near… yet so far. Light teasing of the inner thighs builds anticipation like nothing else. It’s all about edging the pleasure without going straight for the main event.

Try this: A warming massage oil and some slow, circular strokes. Or run a silky blindfold along the skin.

4. Ears

Whispering sweet nothings? Hot. A soft nibble on the earlobe? Even hotter. The ears are often overlooked but can be seriously sexy when teased gently.

Try this: A vibrator with a soft tip can be traced along the outer ear for a tingly little thrill.

5. Perineum

AKA the bit between the genitals and the bum. It’s packed with nerve endings and is super responsive to gentle pressure and vibration. A great spot for everyone, especially if you’re into anal-adjacent play.

Try this: A perineum massager or vibrating butt plug with a base that presses here can really ramp things up.

6. The small of the back

Not the most obvious choice, but trust us- a little touch or kiss here when someone’s least expecting it can be a huge turn on. It’s all about surprise and slow-building intimacy.

Try this: Your hands, a wand vibrator, or even a hot wax candle (safely, of course!) for a slow, sensual build-up.

7. The clitoris

Last, but certainly not least. Small but mighty, the clitoris is packed with thousands of nerve endings, and it’s designed purely for pleasure. Whether you’re just getting started with sex toys or you’ve got a whole drawer full, clitoral stimulation is almost always a winner.

Try this: A wand vibrator is a go-to for powerful external stimulation. Great for solo sessions, or to add extra intensity during partnered play.

Final thoughts…

Exploring different erogenous zones is not just about getting off quicker, it’s about slowing down, tuning in to your body, and discovering what really gets you going. Whether you’re using your hands, your mouth, or a carefully chosen sex toy, there’s so much pleasure waiting outside the usual hotspots. So go on, get curious and explore sex toys for every zone here.