From smoother sensations to safer play, here’s your no-fuss guide to getting started with lubricant…
If you’re new to using lube, you’re not alone, and you’re about to level up your pleasure. Whether you’re flying solo or enjoying partner play, lube reduces friction, enhances sensation, and helps protect your body and your sex toys.
But with so many options- from water-based to silicone, flavoured to organic- it can be hard to know where to start. That’s why we’ve put together this simple, honest guide to help you choose the right one.
Lube isn’t just for when you’re “dry.” It enhances comfort, reduces the risk of irritation, and makes everything feel smoother, whether you’re using toys, engaging in anal play, or experimenting with different types of touch. Plus, it can make orgasms feel even more intense.
Great for: Most types of play
Safe with: Condoms, sex toys (including silicone), and all bodies
Water-based lube is the all rounder. It’s compatible with every toy material and easy to clean. It feels natural and is often the top choice for first timers. However, it may need reapplying during longer sessions as it can dry out.
Great for: Shower sex, long-lasting glide
Safe with: Condoms, glass, metal, or hard plastic toys
Avoid with: Silicone toys (it can degrade the material)
Silicone lube is silky smooth and super long lasting, perfect for extended sessions or play in water. Just steer clear if you’re using silicone-based toys as it can damage them over time.
Great for: Massage, manual play
Avoid with: Latex condoms and most sex toys
Oil-based lubes are rich and nourishing, but they’re not ideal for internal play or with condoms, as they can weaken latex and cause breakage. Best saved for hand play or massage.
Great for: Oral play, foreplay fun
Safe with: Condoms (if water-based), body-safe toys
Fancy something sweet? Flavoured lubes are designed to taste delicious and feel just as good. From strawberry to mint chocolate, they’re a perfect way to bring fun to foreplay. Just make sure you choose one that’s body-safe and preferably sugar-free to avoid irritation.
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Great for: Sensitive skin, ingredient-conscious users
Safe with: Condoms and sex toys (but check individual labels just in case)
Organic lubes use natural ingredients and are often free from synthetic additives, making them ideal for those with allergies or sensitivities. Just be sure to check they’re compatible with your toy materials and play style.
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Always read the label on both your lube and your toy- compatibility matters!
Ready to get slick?
Choosing the right lube isn’t just about practicality, it’s also about personal preference. Try a few, find your favourites, and don’t be afraid to mix it up depending on the moment.
Published on: August 10, 2025
Written by: Mel
